Advice on losing one's virginity..thanks?

I'm 16 turning 17 May and I am a 100% virgin. I live by the bible and was strongly considering waiting until I was married. This was when I was 14, but then as I got older I realized the ways of the worlds and my perspective on guys broadened and I asked myself why should I be the better woman and restrain myself when men act like wild dogs and would have probably f**ked five girls before they got married. A ring on your finger will not make a man stay, people still cheat on each other when they are married. So my little story would be "I waited for this man who cheated on me and/or divorced me". What the hell type of set up is that? I'd be damned if I look like the victim. So anyway, if I was in a strong long term relationship with someone and we were both feeling it...why not have safe ?